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Dementia – in the eyes of the beholder

The definition depends on which lens is used to view it

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By Cecilia Chan

My gang and I – all women – attended a contemporary dance performance, Bhumimata.

The four of us were the squarest, geekiest attendees there on every level. There we were – a gerontologist, a psychologist, a physiotherapist and a sociology student – dipping our virgin feet in a creative, contemporary performance.

Our takes on the performance were both amusing – and even risky! On our way back after the performance, we shared our personal experiences.

The physiotherapist said she was overwhelmed with fear and worry when the dancers moved dangerously at great speed in the dark. She was terrified they would hurt their muscles or tear their ligaments and tendons.

The psychologist said she was mesmerised and focused on one particular dancer who was pushing the others around. She surmised the dancer may be a bully – perhaps suffering from behavioural or psychological issues?

The would-be sociologist subtly interjected: the part where everyone was dancing in sync and harmony resembled how humans are socially constructed to follow a certain normalcy to blend in.

As for the gerontologist – me – I recalled my first reaction to being exposed to contemporary dance. I cringed and perspired profusely, and my heart raced because I could not understand what was going on.

So, I plucked up the courage to ask my dancer friend to explain it to me to soothe my aching brain.

My friend was empathetic. Smiling, she said the most crucial thing to remember when watching contemporary dance is to be open.

Whatever one takes away from a contemporary dance piece is valuable. There is no right or wrong; there is only interpretation. The genuine beauty lies in the beholder’s eye.

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This is exactly our struggle with dementia. Dementia is a unique condition that evokes unique, varying responses from those who deal with it and those who are diagnosed with the condition.

The definition depends on which lens is used to view it.

When a person behaves in ways we don’t accept, do we cringe?

Are we quick to judge them and slap a label on them?

Do we attempt to understand their world and their ways of experiencing their world with a changing brain?

We should not be ashamed if we live with dementia – and yet we are. Words like dementia paralyse us with fear. This fear has enormous power over us.

We can take back and reclaim our power when we pause and reflect on it.

Which lens are we using – because it is indeed in the beholder’s eye.

Dr Cecilia Chan is a gerontologist, dementia advocate and activist based in Penang

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27 Aug 2023 9.30pm

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