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When unity fractures: How Malaysia lost its way and how we can find it again

Our grandparents built this country side by side – why are we tearing it apart?

Urban Malaysia in the 1960s - AI-GENERATED IMAGE

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There was a time when Malaya breathed differently.

It was not a perfect place, but it was a hopeful one – a land where communities of different colours and languages stood shoulder to shoulder, building a future none of them could yet imagine.

Long before we argued over who belonged and who didn’t, people simply lived, worked, struggled and dreamed side by side.

The Indians who arrived laid down the veins of this nation – the estates, the roads, the railways carved through jungle and hills. The Sikhs guarded the towns, the borders, the police force and the early armies.

The ethnic Malays tilled the soil, sustained villages, fed communities and carried the administrative heart of the land.

The Chinese drove commerce, built towns, opened shops and nurtured industries.

Each community carried a part of the nation on its back. Together, they formed the spine that allowed Malaya to stand upright.

That unity was not an illusion. It was lived reality.

People visited each other during festivals without asking whether it was appropriate. Children ran from one neighbour’s home to another without thinking about race. Food was shared naturally – without suspicion, without interrogation.

We may not have had much, but we had each other, and that was enough.

Those who survived the Japanese Occupation remember how strangers shared rice, salt, bananas and tapioca (ubi kayu)so that everyone survived another day. Those who lived through the Emergency recall how communities watched over each other, regardless of language or faith.

My grandfather stood over the school in Imbi Road, ensuring that every Chinese family and Punjabi was safe within the school premises.

Even in the Merdeka years, when the nation was still fragile, unity was something instinctive, not manufactured. It was the heartbeat of a young country learning to stand on its own.

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Sport reflected that unity. When Malaysia beat South Korea in the Merdeka Cup football tournament, the entire nation celebrated like a single family.

When we played India in the hockey World Cup at the Merdeka Stadium, every cheer vibrated through the ground as though one heartbeat echoed across thousands.

When we lifted the Thomas Cup, no one saw the ethnicity of the players – they saw Malaysia. No slogans were needed. No giant billboards preaching harmony. We were harmony.

But nationhood is not immune to corrosion. Over the decades, hairline fractures began to appear – small, almost invisible at first.

Political decisions, racial narratives and the subtle weaponisation of fear slowly chipped away at trust. Unity, once a natural instinct, became an item negotiated by politicians.

Suspicion crept in where friendship once lived. ‘Race’ became a political instrument. Religion became a tool to control rather than to guide. And slowly, quietly, the cracks deepened.

By the time we realised it, division had become a political industry. Ministers discovered that fear was easier to sell than hope, and that an anxious population is easier to control than a united one.

What began as a political strategy became a national habit. Every election season widened the cracks further.

Every controversy that could have brought us together was twisted into something that pushed us apart. And the beautiful, messy canvas of Malaysian identity began to unravel.

That is how we reached a point where leaders no longer focus on uplifting values like honesty, compassion, dignity or mutual respect. Instead, they drift towards policing personal behaviour – deciding what people can wear, what they can drink, whether they can sing karaoke, how they should behave behind closed doors.

When political authority weakens, control over private life becomes a convenient substitute. It is easier to police skirts than to fix corruption. Easier to ban entertainment than to reform failing institutions. Easier to play God than to govern responsibly.

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Then, one day, a video appears. A helpless migrant worker from India lying on the ground. One local person kicking him, a local security guard spraying water at him. An NGO activist lifting him, feeding him, treating him like a human being.

Three locals in Malaysia, three choices, one painful mirror. The incident was not about ethnicity. It was about who we have allowed ourselves to become. It was about how far we have drifted from the values our grandparents lived by without fanfare, without pressure – the values that held this fragile country together for generations.

The truth is, the people of Malaysia have not changed at the core. We are still capable of compassion. We are still capable of looking beyond ethnicity.

We saw this during floods, during disasters, during moments of crisis when ordinary people acted with extraordinary humanity.

But somewhere along the way, the national narrative shifted. The daily noise from those who benefit from division grew louder. We began to retreat into our own cocoons – not because we hated each other, but because we were constantly told to be afraid of one another.

We are now a nation struggling with memory. We have forgotten the Malaysia that lived in the spaces between communities, not within the walls separating them.

We have forgotten the strength that comes from diversity, not uniformity. We have forgotten that our ancestors – whether they arrived 4,000 years ago or four generations ago – did not build this country by segregating themselves. They built it by standing side by side.

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So the cracks widen. Every racial outburst, every careless political statement, every new rule that polices morality instead of improving governance chips away at us.

Malaysia is becoming a place where it is easier to divide people than to uplift them. Where it is easier to impose control than to inspire confidence. Where it is easier to argue over identity than to fight corruption, improve education, strengthen institutions or build a fair economy.

But here is the truth many refuse to say out loud: this is not the path our grandparents walked. They did not survive war, the emergency, hardship and poverty so that their grandchildren could inherit a country fractured by fear.

They did not build a nation with sweat, sacrifice and hope only for us to tear it apart with suspicion.

The Malaysia that once existed is not dead – only buried beneath layers of fear, insecurity and political manipulation. It can be resurrected, not by slogans, not by government campaigns, not by political speeches – but by the people remembering who we truly are.

We are the children of a nation built by many hands. We are the descendants of people who did not ask what race you were before offering help. We are the inheritors of a soil that was nurtured by diversity, strengthened by unity and dignified by compassion.

If we can remember that – truly remember – then the cracks can be closed. The fractures can be healed. And Malaysia can stand upright again, not because the politicians said so, but because the people decided it must be so.

This nation belongs to all of us. It always has. It will survive only if we choose unity over fear, humanity over hatred and courage over comfort.

The views expressed in Aliran's media statements and the NGO statements we have endorsed reflect Aliran's official stand. Views and opinions expressed in other pieces published here do not necessarily reflect Aliran's official position.

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Kenneth
Kenneth
8 Dec 2025 8.38pm

Totally agree! Why divide us when we together can be stronger. There are other countries hoping to prey on us while we are busy working against each other. Foolish right? When will we wake up?

Zainal Kee
Zainal Kee
8 Dec 2025 10.30am

Well said, we are all Malaysian

Saidatul
Saidatul
8 Dec 2025 7.29am

The politicians who invoke fears towards other race must be disqualified from joining political career, it is very irresponsible and extremely dangerous to play race cards, which will slowly make the 13 may happen again. Because when one politician start the race fears and other politician saw it work, they will defend play with the same game too.

Thomas T
Thomas T
7 Dec 2025 4.53pm

Politicians are the culprit to cause disunity in this country. pray hard that we will have a new and sensible government to heal all the fractures

Abdul Samad
Abdul Samad
7 Dec 2025 4.33pm

The first few paragraphs already describes the mentality of the writer. Malays tilled the soil, did the administration work, etc. My question is, why the division of labour?? Why aren’t ALL RACES involved in business, farming, laying down the tracks, etc. The division was sown from the beginning. Dream on AJ, but next time, stay on the ground first

John W
John W
8 Dec 2025 12.04am
Reply to  Abdul Samad

The races were divided depending on what work was available when they were old enough to work and also what their forefathers did before them. A lot of the Malays when we were ruled by the British lived in the smaller towns or kampung and they often worked in agriculture to provide food for themselves. The first indians here worked in the plantations. Actually, not all Chinese were running businesses. I’m hainanese and the first hainanese arrived later than the Cantonese, hokkien and hakkas and so the jobs in mining had dried up. So the hainanese found their niche and the first hainanese coffeeshops were born in Malacca. Even to this day, everyone knows where these first few coffeeshops were located by the river.
Of course, the British did keep the races apart because by dividing us and keeping us apart, we were easier to control. Or at least that’s what I was taught at school. Now I wonder if our politicians learned all to well from the British

Azman
Azman
7 Dec 2025 7.26am

Every race needs a home base. Xi Jinping, Modi, Trump, Macron, Takaichi know this.
Go tell them off.

Mustafa
2 Dec 2025 5.29pm

The creation of the Ministry of National Unity indicates the fractures in our social life over the years, no thanks to those politicians who have made disunity into a cottage industry.

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